Family Constellation
Family constellation is a phenomenological approach, applied both individually and in groups, with the aim of accessing the morphogenetic field and identifying entanglements that affect the client's system. It was developed by the German therapist, philosopher, theologian, and pedagogue Bert Hellinger.
In the 1980s, when family constellation was created, not all of its mechanisms were understood. However, in the following decade, with the mapping of the Human Genome, it was discovered that genes transmit ancestral memories to future generations, known as epigenetic memories. The English biologist Rupert Sheldrake further substantiated this theory with his research on morphogenetic fields.
According to Bert Hellinger, in the book "Orders of Love," the validation of the constellator's hypotheses occurs through the reactions manifested by the client. From this revelation, the client can gain an understanding of their family system and find a loving solution to the issue. Systemic solutions always aim for inclusion and integration, preserving the balance of the system.
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Systemic Orders
Law of Belonging
Every individual has the need to belong, and each person has their place in the family. If someone is excluded, the system seeks inclusion and balance. According to Hellinger, "when someone is excluded, their destiny is unconsciously assumed by subsequent members of the family." The solution is to reintegrate the excluded person, allowing the injustice to be compensated and destinies not to be repeated.
Law of Hierarchy or Precedence
In addition to belonging, each individual occupies a position within the family system. This law requires respecting those who came first, that is, parents have precedence over children, and the parents' previous relationships also occupy a place of respect. Respecting the hierarchy does not mean perpetuating the same behaviors, but recognizing and honoring predecessors.
Law of Balance
Imbalances in the family system often occur due to an imbalance between giving and receiving. For example, in a romantic relationship, if one partner gives more than the other, the balance is compromised.
Each family has its own history, so each situation requires a personalized approach. The dynamics of a constellation can be carried out individually or in a group.
When someone participates in a family constellation, the effects are not limited to the person in question. Family members and other individuals involved in the dynamics, even if not present, can feel its influence due to the intertwined morphogenetic fields.
In family constellation, it is understood that people are responsible for the situations they face. This revelation can trigger various feelings, often due to our limited understanding of the family system and the influence of our own judgments.
Systemic family constellation does not replace psychotherapy or medical treatments, but it adds a possibility of improvement to challenging situations.
Among the benefits of family constellation are significant transformations in life, such as improved family relationships, resolution of financial and emotional issues, and even improvements in health. However, it is important to recognize that results may vary, as each person and family system is unique.